Do I back off and see if he comes back to me?

We've been dating a month. On Thursday he freaked out after some big news that upset him and he wrongly assumed I'd blocked him over something petty, thus while upset he blocked me in return to essentially end us. I hadn't blocked him so texted him, he unblocked me but has barely talked or even been... show more We've been dating a month. On Thursday he freaked out after some big news that upset him and he wrongly assumed I'd blocked him over something petty, thus while upset he blocked me in return to essentially end us.

I hadn't blocked him so texted him, he unblocked me but has barely talked or even been online much since. I messaged him on Saturday and he only just replied on Monday, but still not talking much and nothing has been clarified re. if he wants us to continue.

He's being rude by not talking but at the same time I know he's struggling and shuts out the world when upset. I'm not sure if I should give him the benefit of the doubt. I'm not sure if we're over.

I don't want to chase him and we've not been together long enough for me to force support, if he wants to talk he knows where I am. I'm thinking I'll just wait to see if he reaches out to me and go from there, but if he doesn't then just let it go (rather than confronting him about it or making a point to end it like blocking him etc).

I hate being in this limbo!
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