Do I have an unhealthy relationship with my husband if we don't think of each other as smart?

My husband and I would sometimes get into arguments that would get heated sometimes. Sometimes he undermines what I say. We have different styles and competitive too with each other. There is an unspoken thought between us that says he and I don't think of each other as smart. Is it healthy or ok for couples... show more My husband and I would sometimes get into arguments that would get heated sometimes. Sometimes he undermines what I say. We have different styles and competitive too with each other. There is an unspoken thought between us that says he and I don't think of each other as smart. Is it healthy or ok for couples to have this type of relationship?
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