What is wrong with my mother?

Ever since I moved in with my grandparents, my mom has been on my case. Let me explain. I'm from Florida but my mother moved us to phoenix. I absolutely hate both places. Phoenix summers are miserable, absolute pain. It's ugly, depressing, crowded, hot. All the brown just got to me. I moved in with my... show more Ever since I moved in with my grandparents, my mom has been on my case. Let me explain. I'm from Florida but my mother moved us to phoenix. I absolutely hate both places. Phoenix summers are miserable, absolute pain. It's ugly, depressing, crowded, hot. All the brown just got to me. I moved in with my grandma in Tacoma for my senior year and I was so happy. Everything about this state just makes me happy, I feel like a new person. And now im pregnant and 17 (still finishing my senior year) and I live in Spokane right now with my boyfriend. Because I smoke weed (not rn cause I'm pregnant) she thinks I'm gonna become a hard core drug user living here cause its legal. She constantly tells me my son is gonna be miserable living here, and I'll become fat and lazy living here in the cold. (Id rather play here in the winter than in the Arizona summer.) She tells me I'm gonna get sick, my son will get pneumonia and she thinks the cold cancels out vaccinations or something like that. She says snow is no place for a kid to grow up, and they need to "live in the sunshine." I wish I grew up in snow honestly. I do get tired of the winters but I still like the seasons here more than east Washington. And its very pretty like to where I want to do things, phoenix is just depressing. In winter when I sent her pics of me in the snow she got mad over the phone and screamed at me how I'm making myself sick and always bragged about the sunshine there.
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