Mother in law keeps asking my husband how our marriage is doing?

My in laws hate me. They are still hung up on "people cant change and we hate her because of things she has said or did years ago. It will take an act of God to get us to trust her again". My husband briefly stayed w/them after we separated to clear our heads for a few days. That was a month ago. He told... show more My in laws hate me. They are still hung up on "people cant change and we hate her because of things she has said or did years ago. It will take an act of God to get us to trust her again". My husband briefly stayed w/them after we separated to clear our heads for a few days. That was a month ago. He told his folks to mind their own business and to please respect his marriage boundaries and life choices. Every week or every other week, his mother (uneducated/unemployed know it all) texts him asking "how are you doing?" "I am worried for your safety". "Please let me know if you are ok with your marriage and life". (Something long these lines). He has told her "mom we are doing great, we are fine" (as a therapist told us to say). But she keeps pressing the issue. What is her problem? They went as far as to lie to lawyers they knew to try to "force" him to divorce me, he declined.
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