What is the best way to react to a smear campaign trying to get you to stop the no contact?

I have no contact with an abusive ex and 5 years after divorce and court he has started a smear campaign. He is using his girlfriend to post nasty stuff on facebook about me - his mother sent him nasty messages about me and he forwarded them to our kids (who also have no contact but can see his messages) and he is... show more I have no contact with an abusive ex and 5 years after divorce and court he has started a smear campaign.
He is using his girlfriend to post nasty stuff on facebook about me - his mother sent him nasty messages about me and he forwarded them to our kids (who also have no contact but can see his messages)
and he is now getting the rest of his narcissistic family to offer the kids (teenagers) money for contact via post
( he found our address out by stalking me) and he also has knocked on our front door with gifts for the kids uninvited and luckily another family member answered the door as we were out.

On the same day he came around his girlfriend publicly posted on social media that I am stalking her.
She turned up to court and bad mouthed me to my solicitor in a side room so much that he couldn't repeat it. He was disgusted with them both.

So far I am continuing to ignore all this as I think they are setting me up for something - I am very stressed as it feels like I am being watched and they have a plan thought up.

The reason we are no contact is because he refused t do anything the court asked of him to gain unsupervised contact and he cannot stop bad mouthing me to our children. It was meant to be phone calls only but he only texts and now the kids refuse to respond as it's always just nasty stuff about me or playing one against the other - but they haven't blocked him yet as they want to know what he is planning.

Any ideas how to stop this smear campaign? Thanks.
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